Never give up

never

Never stop fighting

never

Never lose hope

never

Stand your ground

even if it hurts

Pray until something happens

and

Never ever give up.

Dee

Single and lonely? read on

Good day ladies, today I want to talk a little about loneliness, I know there is a lot of Women's out there that are Lonely, and struggle every day with this feeling. 

We are in a Society that put a lot of Stress on people that are single, We have this misconception of the need to be in a relationship, to get married, to have children at certain age, and that we suppose to put up with abuse, in some cases, we was broth up that way.

 When we have a desperate need to be with someone for the wrong reason, it can back-fire on us has abuse, specially if Love is not part of it, and in some cases our self-esteem in so low that we have this strong            unhealthy desire to be with someone so we can feel better about our-self, or to calm a deep void of loneliness.

We most always remember that a relationship most be between to people that love and respect each other boundaries, and if you are in a relationship because of sex, financial help, or because he is your baby Daddy, any of the above that don't have nothing to do with love and commitment can put you in a bind that later down the road will cost you lost of pain.

I know most of you are saying, " So what should I suppose to do? be alone." Well not necessarily, we need to understand first, that been single is not a crime, much less loneliness, and that we most primarily be happy with our own self, take the time to enjoy life, for example; when we occupy our-self learning and discovering new things, like going back to school, volunteer, join a poetry club, be part of a women's support group, make new friends, travel, or even taking cooking classes, make us feel better about our self, we also grow emotionally mentally and spiritually.

Independent is been strong, learning and growing, we can do anything and achieve anything if we want, and yes, good things come with hard work, so celebrate being single, embrace yourself, look around, relax, breath deeply, close your eyes and imagine yourself free from stereotypes, happy, stronger and Independent.

blessings

Dee